Homeschooling, unschooling, and deschooling. How does one differentiate one from the other? Are they in opposition to each other and is there a fear of choosing the wrong approach?
Let’s begin with the fact that all three methods reside outside the realm of traditional schooling so they at least have THAT in common. Yet, all three differ in their philosophy, methods, and goals. This is where the confusion sets in and when it comes to choosing your method of instruction, you want… no, MUST be clear about the pros and cons of each one because what you ultimately decide will require some serious effect and planning. Nothing will discourage you more than questioning your decision down the road. If you are just starting out or seriously think that a method is not working for you, then it’s time to educate yourself and empower you to make a sound decision you can really sink your teeth into. Let’s begin by defining the three.
Homeschooling
This is where parents take the responsibility for teaching their children at home. Generally, some form of curriculum or standardized program is implemented and used as a benchmark or guide to staying on track. A parent may choose to adhere to a schedule similar to traditional schooling or allow a child to learn at their own pace. The child may be given the freedom to pursue their own interests for a time until returning to activities or subject matter suggested in the set curriculum.
Unschooling
This is where we set aside the set curriculum and scheduling and tailor our instruction based on the child-led learning method. With this approach, children are allowed to follow their interests and passions without a set curriculum or schedule hovering in the background. The focus is on developing a love of learning rather than following a predetermined set of academic goals. Keep in mind that as carefree as this sounds, child-led learning requires patience and the resilience to adapt to rapid-fire thoughts and short attention spans.
Deschooling
This is a different beast altogether. It’s not necessarily a method of instruction but more of a transition and a process that shifts you away from the traditional school mindset. This would involve questioning the assumptions and values that underlie our current education system. It makes sense that if your child has never attended traditional school, there is no transitioning taking place but, you may still need to walk through the thought process and this will help anchor your resolve to stay clear of traditional schools and to adjust to a new way life at home or even on the road. Yes, there is something called roadschooling and even worldschooling for the jet-setters and digital nomad families. That my friend, is a different post.
Now What?
Since we can’t question traditional education forever, it’s safe to say that Deschooling is not something we do forever. At one point, a choice needs to be made and if the whole thought process in deschooling helps you get there, you will probably have a far greater resolve and commitment to making the newly-chosen method work. Remember to think hard about your decision. Switching styles and methods mid-journey can be really disruptive and set everyone back a lot further than anticipated. In a future article, I will outline ways to deschool that will not rob you of your sanity.
On a final note. Remember that while you can have a wonderful experience with child-led education in unschooling, you want to be prepared when your child delays or shows no interest in reading. Reading requires explicit instruction. No child learns to read through osmosis and the process is way more complex to throw all caution to the wind. You may wish to refer to my article entitled 7 Ways to Encourage Your Child to Love Reading.
